Since it is something that matters to me a lot and I need to express myself about it.
When I phoned her she seemed surprised that I was phoning and who I was. So she doesn't recognise my number and has to reach for her memory about me... That's quite unlikely. There were intense feelings passing around, and it's been less than a year. I remember clearly people whom I have had almost zero contact with, I remember internet people that I talked to within the last year!