The process of 'understanding, acceptance, and forgiveness'.

 

There was a time when, in a very paranoid manner. I would message someone if I used their tweets in something like this. Just to inform them. But I don't think that's necessary. Also, I suspect, in almost all my communication with any woman, at any time. That if I message them, they think I want to sleep with them, and that's my only motivation. Like, I can't have an internal world with motivations outside of that one. 

If I was saying something negative about them I might hide the names. But since I am only going to talk positively about the validity of the wisdom here, I am not going to do that.  

These are two valuable tweets though to me. One of the things I do think is interesting is that women put a lot of their internal world out there on display. Whereas. Guys tend to write long, very well thought through statements about how things are. Fully analysed. Even if it includes their own experience, it will have context. Women, with all the positive feedback they get from the world. Will often just say "this is my experience". And leave it at that. 

Once women add analysis it often becomes things like "a real man... toils and slaves for a woman for no benefit without protest" or other, self serving statements.  

There is a statement in the Law of One that I think over frequently.

Questioner: If an entity develops what is called a karma in an incarnation, is there then programming that sometimes occurs so that he will experience catalyst that will enable him to get to a point of forgiveness thereby alleviating the karma?

Ra: I am Ra. This is, in general, correct. However, both self and any involved other-self may, at any time through the process of understanding, acceptance, and forgiveness, ameliorate these patterns. This is true at any point in an incarnative pattern. Thus one who has set in motion an action may forgive itself and never again make that error. This also brakes or stops what you call karma.

Insight.

I was thinking of this the other day, I have thought of this frequently because it does actually describe in some sense what we are supposed to be doing here I suppose. But I was thinking about this recently, and it seems obvious to me that this is the same way catalyst is processed through a person. Understanding (the mind) Acceptance (the body) and Forgiveness (the spirit).

I wrote previously on what some of this might mean here. In it I talked about how understanding, might actually be a complex process that sometimes takes years and the examples I gave are things like when understanding of a situation reframes the whole thing. For instance, understanding you had childhood trauma that trains you to interact in a certain way. Or some other issue that was energising the problem that you previously saw as the sole moral deficiency being on the other person. 

Acceptance though? I have talked before somewhere about how I think the male mind/ body/ spirit complex specifically works. Not that I know if women do or do not work the same way, but I suspect they work slightly differently so will not talk on female psychology here. 

One of the things that I have noticed in going to the gym is how it improves my thoughts. And it improves them very much in the direction that it can remove a lot of anxiety from previous thoughts and allow me to see clearly. An example is at a previous workplace, after a gym session, I suddenly had the insight that a female manager had deliberately been placed next to me to pick at me. That when she asked if I wanted help with something and that I should "send her the call". It was in the view of catching me out. Which she did, eventually, do. 

I was not able to confront this at the time because, I think, as I have observed before, my subconscious had calculated I could not oppose an entire workplace of people that didn't like me. So I was not able to confront within myself that this was the situation. But with the gym. With the testosterone increase. And the cleaning of a lot of these stresses out of my muscles. I was suddenly able to see that. 

There is another element of animalism that this highlights as well. I think if we are in a position of too low status, we are not able to process the world as it is because we make these sorts of concessions. I suspect, but have not confirmed, that for women. Social networking plays a larger role at this point. I have known women that have gone to the gym a lot, and while it helps them. It doesn't seem to create the sense of relief that is close to a religious revelation in its intensity that guys experience. Women it seems like to talk things over with their friends, and I think that kind of strategising is part of "body" strength potentially. 

The tweets.

This comes back to the tweets at the beginning for two reasons.

The first one, where Pelton Elroy talks about "forgiveness". Is this forgiveness? I don't think it is. The insight she is describing is not a forgiveness issue. It is an understanding issue, that others are different from us. 

The second one, about the lymphatic drainage massage. Talks, I think, with some validity about the process of acceptance. To really feel the emotions like that might happen long after "understanding" has happened. As I said, my theory is that acceptance is about the body. 

More to say.

I have other thoughts and questions about this. I wonder if the process talks about something a bit different. For instance, with "understanding". In general, if you start understanding things, you understand a lot of interconnected things. Like 'Oh, this is how women psychologically function'. Or 'Oh, my health impacted the situation like this'. It tends to apply to a wide variety of areas. 

So a "process" of understanding, acceptance and forgiveness would not necessarily be relevant to a single individual. So is a larger process being described here? A process whereby the way the entire world is looked at is very different?

I don't have answers on that yet. But it is yet another question on this which adds a little bit more context to the discussion.