If I can possibly get out of this without blaming anyone I will. If my 'solution' involves blame of someone else then I will consider that. If there is another one which works better I will go for that.
I got a response from my previous letter to an MP regarding the EU. I slept a little. It is best for me not to hold these emotions in but expressing them does seem to allow me to come to some sort of solution. Possibly. Who knows if it's just temporary.